A man’s love is divided into three levels. Only when he loves the third level will he be afraid of losing
Love should be the most elusive thing in this world.
Some people obviously get it, but they are always suffering from gains and losses, and they never get it; while some people clearly feel that they have never had it, but their lover has been waiting at his looking back.
As a sensitive person in the world of love, women tend to compare their love to men. Once a woman is in love, she must have a deeper level of love than a man.
It seems that you must get the most sincere love from a man to prove that you have not paid wrongly.
But in fact, a man's love is divided into three levels, and only when he loves to the third level, he is afraid of losing.
The first level: Get used to your existence, but it is just a habit. In the life with him, you are always two separate people.
The most terrifying thing in "love" is habit, because habit also means that your love has become a general you can take anywhere.
The main reason why he is with you is not because of how much he loves you, but because he feels that you can barely meet his needs. Because his love for you is always at the most basic level-just get used to it.
Simply put, your existence can add to his life; but without you, his world would not be affected too much.
Because the quality of his world has never changed because of you. When you fall in love with such a man, you will only bow to your knees and keep wronging yourself.
For such a cool man, you'd better not provoke, and you can't afford to provoke. Because, no matter who can't stand it in the end, you will lose badly.
You have to understand that the man whose love for you can only be at this stage will only waste your time and feelings.
Therefore, in order to avoid regretting the original, you must decisively choose to end.
The second level: just say nothing, many things promised will always be delayed by other things.
Compared to the first degree of men’s love, this second degree sounds better. Because this man at least cares about you with ulterior motives.
In his world, at least he didn't take you as an adult to complete the tasks, but really liked you.
But as the saying goes: "A man's mouth, a deceitful ghost." A man who always draws cakes for you, a man who always writes you a bad check, does not necessarily love you too much.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Time is like water in a sponge, there is always a squeeze."
Therefore, the key to the success of an event is not how difficult the event itself is, but whether the person who promised is determined to do it.
In other words, a man promises you that if he wants, he can do it. Jay Chou is so busy, he can still spare time to go all the way to the show to visit Kunling.
Therefore, a man who uses his busy schedule to shirk his promises, his love for you may only be superficial, or it may be just to touch himself.
A man who really cares about you, he will remember every word he says to you. Because he loves you, he doesn't want to look at your disappointed expression.
The third degree: in my heart, my eyes are full of you. As long as you are happy, he is enough.
If it is said that the first two degrees of men's love are in the stranded area and the shallow water area, then the third degree is the deep water area.
A man of this level is absolutely obedient to you. He loves you, as if he was afraid of putting it in his hand, and cherishing it when he held it in his mouth.
For him, happy what you are happy and sad what you sad is the happiest thing in this life. Because all his emotions are born of you.
Moreover, he will never have his own bottom line for you, because his bottom line is you.
For him, the happiest moment is when you are happy. You are his April sky, warming his whole world.
The only thing he can do is to do his best to protect you. Because I love too much, I am afraid of losing, even the king of heaven is no exception.
A generation of heavenly king Jay Chou did not love his wife Kunling in this way. The two changed the law to show off their affection, but these lovers were not blessed by everyone at first.
At that time, when the two announced their love affair, everyone thought that the lovers, who had a huge age difference, could not get together. But Jay Chou used practical actions to prove his love for Kunling to everyone.
Therefore, no matter how busy he is at work, he will take time to check in and cheer at Kunling's workplace. Moreover, in every photo of the two of them, Jay Chou always looks at Kun Ling with a cool expression.
You are making trouble, he is laughing, this should be the most beautiful look of love!
I believe that for Jay Chou, spare no effort to give is not only to prove love, but also to fear losing his wife. After all, good women are loved by men.
Although "love" never advocates being confident, but when a man loves you to the point of fear of losing, he really regards you as fate. Because he cares, he will love you with his heart.
Many girls nowadays prefer to spend their time on work and play, and are unwilling to seriously talk about a relationship.
Asked the reason but said: "Afraid of being hurt." Because once you are serious in your relationship, you lose. Although, I don't know where this is from, the love and mourning words that came out.
What Ximei wants to say is that love needs to be tried, but no one asks you to give up your complete self from the beginning.
Love also needs to be learned. Only by knowing more and seeing more can you meet the man who is full of you.
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