My wife and I have been separated for ten years, should we divorce for the sake of our children?

 We have been married for ten years and have two children. My wife and I have been separated for the past ten years. We usually live with our parents and only reunite on weekends.

When she first got married, she worked a week or two weeks before returning to our home to live together for two days. At that time, I thought she could accept her work far, but she soon had children. Three years after giving birth, we were here. The only time to live together in ten years.

Later, when the child was older, she took the child to live with her mother. We returned to the rhythm of reunion two days a week. The more friction I had with her parents when I went to live at her house, I didn’t want to go to her again. At that time, I thought it might be like living with an elderly person. It would be fine when we have a room.

After another year, her family was demolished. Now we can finally live together. I think we can live together and finally feel at ease. However, since we lived together, there has been constant friction, saying that I can't handle the relationship with her relatives. , She often took the child to live with her mother or went out to play with her parents and left me alone at home.

Later, we quarreled several times and completely separated for a year and a half. Recently, because of our children, we resumed the rhythm of couples on the weekend. I went back to live one day a week.

We had a good talk last week. She said that she had never loved anyone, and she felt stressed and annoyed when she saw me. This is the reason for our separation for many years.

I wasted the best time of my life to such a person. In fact, I also thought about divorce, but I have been reluctant to divorce for the sake of my children. I am afraid that I will not be able to see my children often and fear that their lives will be bad, but I feel that my life is really bad. Up. what should I do? "

The above is a netizen's narrative. My suggestion: If the husband and wife are only arguing about trivial matters, stumbling, and personality incompatibility, the marriage should continue. This is because since you have chosen to get married, you must fulfill the responsibilities and obligations of the marriage. When you choose marriage, you are destined to be with the partner in front of you to grow old. This is a responsible attitude towards life. But if the relationship between husband and wife is to the point where they hate each other, one of them has no feelings for the other, and never reflects or repents because of their own insufficiency, only complains, and malicious coercion. At this time, you must make a decisive choice, not for your children. Maintain this dying home.

Two people never know each other to know each other and love each other, and then they enter into marriage. With the crystallization of love, this marriage should be cherished. Moreover, every couple has a process of running into each other, which requires tolerance and understanding. But if after rational thinking, you feel that love is gone and there is no happiness for two people together, then it is better to separate, even if you already have children.

Parents want their children to be strong and brave. First of all, they must be firm and persistent. Parents want their children to be happy and motivated. First of all, they must be optimistic and work hard. Parents want their children to live a happy life in the future. They must choose a lifestyle that best suits them.